Health & Safety Guidelines
Before You Begin
Medical Considerations
Consult healthcare providers if you have:
- Pelvic floor disorders
- Recent surgery
- Pregnancy
- STIs or infections
- Chronic conditions
- Allergies or sensitivities
Preparation
- Wash hands thoroughly
- Ensure toys are clean
- Have lubricant ready
- Allow adequate time
- Ensure privacy
Safe Use Practices
Lubrication
- Essential for comfort and safety
- Reapply as needed
- More is often better
- Match lube to material
- Keep extra nearby
Insertion Guidelines
- Start slowly
- Listen to your body
- Never force anything
- Stop if painful
- Gradual size progression
Time Limits
Cock Rings: Maximum 30 minutes
Plugs: Start with 30 minutes, build gradually
Vibrators: Take breaks to prevent numbness
Pumps: Follow manufacturer limits
Hygiene Practices
Personal Hygiene
- Wash before and after
- Trim fingernails
- Remove sharp jewelry
- Clean anal area thoroughly
- Urinate after play
Toy Hygiene
- One toy per orifice
- Clean between uses
- Use condoms when sharing
- Dedicated anal toys
- Proper storage essential
Warning Signs
Stop Immediately If:
- Sharp or severe pain
- Unusual bleeding
- Numbness persisting
- Skin irritation
- Allergic reactions
- Difficulty removing item
Seek Medical Help For:
- Items stuck internally
- Severe pain
- Heavy bleeding
- Signs of infection
- Allergic reactions
Specific Safety Guidelines
Anal Play
- Never go anal to vaginal
- Use thicker lubricant
- Choose flared base toys
- Go slower than you think
- Communicate constantly
BDSM/Impact
- Establish safe words
- Avoid joints and organs
- Start light
- Check circulation
- Have safety scissors ready
Electrical Toys
- Never use with pacemakers
- Avoid if pregnant
- Keep away from water
- Check for damage
- Follow voltage guidelines
Allergies and Sensitivities
Common Allergens
- Latex
- Certain lubricant ingredients
- Fragrances
- Dyes
- Nickel (in some metals)
Patch Testing
- Apply small amount to inner arm
- Wait 24 hours
- Check for reactions
- If clear, proceed cautiously
Cleaning Up
Immediate After-Care
- Urinate to prevent UTIs
- Gentle external cleaning
- Avoid douching
- Pat dry gently
- Comfortable clothing
Monitoring
- Check for irritation
- Note any discomfort
- Watch for infections
- Document allergies
- Track what works
Partner Communication
- Discuss boundaries first
- Establish consent
- Use safe words
- Check in regularly
- Respect limits
Emergency Preparedness
Keep handy:
- Emergency contacts
- Lubricant
- Clean towels
- Safety scissors
- First aid supplies
Remember
- Your safety comes first
- No shame in stopping
- Everyone's body is different
- Practice makes perfect
- When in doubt, don't